I know
someone who fell in love while dancing to a Beatles song, but not exactly to
the person she was dancing with. Let me back up. When I was at Notre Dame, one
Spring break I led a bunch of students on a trip to spend a week at a L’Arche
house. L’Arche houses are places community where people with and without
intellectual disabilities live and work together as peers, creating communities
of faith and friendship. I taught a class where for the first half of the
semester, we studied the L’Arche movement and the spiritual and theological
principles that undergird it, then we spent Spring break living it and the rest
of the semester unpacking that experience. One of my students told me
afterwards that she was going to apply to spend a year living as part of one of
their communities. “I still want to be an attorney,” she told me. “I still want
to help people professionally in that way, maybe run for office someday, but I
need more of this first.” “Can you expand that, what’s ‘this’ for you?” I asked
her. And that’s when she told me about the Beatles song. We’d been in the
kitchen, preparing dinner. The student had shown up a minute or so late to the work shift, and
there wasn’t really anything for her to do, all the tasks had been assigned.
She told me how frustrating this was, as she’d come here to help people, but
then that opening harmonica riff of “Love, love me do” came on the radio, and one
of the core members (the community members with intellectual disabilities),
asked her to dance. It was while dancing that she realized that there’s
something more fundamental than helping people, and that’s loving, loving life,
loving people. I encouraged her to remember that moment of clarity, that
delightful dance, whether that be through journaling, telling her story to
others, sketching it, whatever works for her, because things won’t always feel
that naturally easy, even if objectively they’ll still be just as beautiful.
Sunday, January 21, 2018
Sunday, January 14, 2018
God shows us loving dwelling – John 1:3b-10, 19
2nd Sunday of Ordinary Time, Year B; Holy Infant parish.
There
are some questions that don’t allow for short answers, that open things up that
can’t be simply put back in their can. “Harry, how was it you got that scar
again?” “Ishmael, did you ever happen to meet a ship’s captain, name of Ahab?” “What
an interesting piece of jewelry around your neck, Frodo!” Well, when the
disciples ask Jesus, “where are you staying?” that ends up being one of those
questions too, whose answer is very much longer than the question.
Sunday, December 10, 2017
God brings us exiles home – Isa 40:1-5,9-11, Mark 1:1-8
2nd Sunday of Advent, Year B; Holy Infant parish
To
exiles, comfort is spoken, comfort is tenderly spoken. The Israelites heard this comfort after living
for well over a generation in Babylon, after the Babylonians had razed
Jerusalem and brought them captive to Babylon.
So many had grown up with talk of their Land, their own king, their own
Temple being foreign to them, being something almost unimaginable, something
they had never known, something that they know engenders a sparkle in the
grandparents’ eyes, but not something they had ever touched or seen for
themselves. They were Israelites who had
not known Israel, but only Babylonian captivity. They had only known lush gardens they were
shut out of. They had only known
themselves as foreign, as alien, as unwanted except as cheap labor. They tried to sing their people’s songs in a
strange land, but the melodies had never been wrapped around their tongues in
their homeland.
Sunday, December 3, 2017
Christ meets us in our offering – Isa 63:16b-17, 19; 64:2-7; Advent I collect
Advent I, Year B; Holy Infant church
Our
readings today began without could have been understood as a formulaic
profession of faith, “You, God, are our Father.” But it’s not just a statement
of fact. Actually, in the Hebrew that verb “are” isn’t there, the reading would
just begin with a list of titles for God: “You… God… our Father! Redeemer! (so
named for ever)… Why do you make us stray from you, God?” It’s a long
introduction to a question, a long crying out to God, to God whose absence is
felt very keenly.
Sunday, November 26, 2017
Jesus hungers for us – Matt 25:31-46, Ezek 34:11-17
Christ the King, Year A; Holy Infant parish.
What is
it to be glorious? I ask, because I don’t think we use that word
a lot. Words we use to say that
something’s very good tend to suffer deflation over their history and new words
need to be coined. Something can be
awesome without actually causing anyone much awe anymore, or brilliant without
really make much of anything shine, or amazing without anyone being all that
amazed. But, glorious, that word seems to have kept a mystique, a value all of
its own. Our gospel tells us that at the
end of time, the Son of Man will come in his glory, that he will be glorious,
but we kind of have to hunt through the text to find what glory really means.
Sunday, November 12, 2017
God gives us the oil to light up the world – Matt 25:1-13, Wis 6:12-16
32nd Sunday in OT, Year C; Holy Infant.
Ever
have the experience of looking for something that’s right under your nose? Like
going searching for your glasses when you’re wearing them (which I guess would
make them on your nose, not under it, but the point stands). Or, my personal
favorite, the time recently when I noticed that my trouser pocket seemed a
little light, reached down to check what was in it, thought “Oh no! Where are
my car keys,” then realized… I was driving. Well, both our first reading and
our gospel are about that kind of possibility, only not with glasses and keys,
but with Wisdom, and Wisdom incarnate, Christ at his coming.
Sunday, October 29, 2017
God loves us over-flowingly – Matt 22:34-40, Exod 22:20-26
Thirtieth Sunday of Ordinary Time, Year A, Mass with baptism; Holy Infant parish.
When I
was in college, our student apartments where heated by storage heaters. For
those who’ve never had the misfortune to live somewhere heated like this, let
me explain how they work. They’re electric heaters that only turn on overnight,
when the electricity’s cheaper. Inside them are bricks that absorb the heat and
slowly release it over the day. At night, it works great. You get great heat
throughout the morning too from the bricks. But, I remember some pretty chilly
early evenings, as we sat around the stove after dinner, waiting for the magic
time (9pm I think?) when the heaters would turn back on and warm both us, and
the now cold bricks.
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